Dedicated to finding a girlfriend. any help out there?

dude you are coming off way to creepy and desperate, hit the gym bulk up / loose some weight. Work on your appearance and don't be so damn nice all the time. Nice guys finish last, and you my friend are already falling behind. Just go to a coffee shop buy a book, and sit there and scope out a girl that's there and get up and ask her if you could sit down and start a convo. Good luck